\u00dcsk\u00fcdar \u00dcniversitesi NP\u0130STANBUL Hastanesi \u00c7ocuk ve Ergen Psikiyatri Uzman\u0131 Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Neriman Kilit, ekran kullan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u011flanma, geli\u015fim ve davran\u0131\u015f s\u00fcre\u00e7leri \u00fczerindeki olumsuz etkileri ile sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ebeveyn tutumunun \u00f6nemini hakk\u0131nda bilgi verdi.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocukta \u00a0\u015fiddet e\u011filimi sinyalerine dikkat!\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u015eiddet e\u011filiminin \u00e7o\u011funlukla \u00e7evresel fakt\u00f6rlerle \u015fekillendi\u011fine de\u011finen Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Neriman Kilit, \u201cGenetik yatk\u0131nl\u0131k s\u00f6z konusu olsa bile, do\u011fru de\u011ferler kazand\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocuk bu e\u011filimleri kontrol etmeyi \u00f6\u011frenebilir.\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n \u015eiddete e\u011filimli olabilecek \u00e7ocuklarda baz\u0131 erken sinyaller g\u00f6zlemlenebilece\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Kilit, \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n \u201cS\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 kabul etmeme, akranlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flar, zorbal\u0131k, hayvanlara kar\u015f\u0131 duyars\u0131zl\u0131k, yenilgiyi kabullenememe, \u00f6fke patlamalar\u0131, tehditk\u00e2r konu\u015fmalar, intikam i\u00e7erikli ifadeler \u00a0ve dijital oyunlara a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k bu belirtiler aras\u0131nda yer al\u0131r. Bu t\u00fcr durumlarda problemi g\u00f6rmezden gelmek yerine bir uzmandan destek almak \u00f6nemlidir. Ebeveynlik, \u00f6\u011frenilen bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir ve herkes bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te dengeyi bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fa s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck tan\u0131mak kadar a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 sert tutumlar da geli\u015fimi olumsuz etkiler. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 disiplin; kararl\u0131, tutarl\u0131 ve sevgi temelli bir yakla\u015f\u0131m gerektirir.\u201d<\/p>\n Ekranla me\u015fguliyet, ebeveyn\u2013bebek ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zay\u0131flat\u0131yor!\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Dijital d\u00fcnyan\u0131n hayat\u0131m\u0131za yo\u011fun bi\u00e7imde girmesinin, \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fiminin bir\u00e7ok a\u015famas\u0131n\u0131 do\u011frudan ya da dolayl\u0131 olarak etkileyebildi\u011fini dile getiren\u00a0Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Neriman Kilit, \u201cBu nedenle her geli\u015fim d\u00f6nemini do\u011fru anlamak ve bu d\u00f6nemlerde \u00e7ocu\u011fun ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u015fekilde kar\u015f\u0131lamak b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131yor.\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n \u0130nsan hayat\u0131n\u0131n ilk y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131n, temel g\u00fcven duygusunun olu\u015ftu\u011fu en kritik evre oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7eken\u00a0Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Kilit, \u201cBu d\u00f6nem \u2018ba\u011flanma d\u00f6nemi\u2019 olarak adland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. Bebek, \u00f6ncelikle anneyle, ard\u0131ndan babayla g\u00fcvenli bir ba\u011f kurarak d\u00fcnyay\u0131 g\u00fcvenli bir yer olarak alg\u0131lamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenir. Ancak ebeveynlerin bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te s\u00fcrekli ekranla me\u015fgul olmas\u0131, bebekle kurulan g\u00f6z temas\u0131, temas ve duygusal ileti\u015fimi zay\u0131flatabilir. Bu durum da g\u00fcvenli ba\u011flanman\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u015fekilde geli\u015fmesini engelleyerek ilerleyen y\u0131llarda psikolojik sorunlara zemin haz\u0131rlayabilir.\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n Ekran kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ge\u00e7irilen uzun s\u00fcreler, \u00e7ocu\u011fun fark\u0131ndal\u0131k kazanmas\u0131n\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor!<\/strong><\/p>\n 2 ila 3 ya\u015f aras\u0131 d\u00f6nemin, \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zerklik kazanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir evre oldu\u011funu kaydeden\u00a0Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Neriman Kilit, \u201cTuvalet e\u011fitiminin de bu d\u00f6neme denk gelmesi tesad\u00fcf de\u011fildir. \u00c7ocuk bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te kendi bedensel fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftirir; a\u00e7l\u0131k, tokluk ve tuvalet gibi temel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131may\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenir.\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n Ancak ekran kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ge\u00e7irilen uzun s\u00fcrelerin, \u00e7ocu\u011fun bu fark\u0131ndal\u0131klar\u0131 kazanmas\u0131n\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131raca\u011f\u0131na vurgu yapan\u00a0Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Neriman Kilit, \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6yledi:<\/p>\n \u201cAyn\u0131 \u015fekilde ebeveynin de s\u00fcrekli telefonla me\u015fgul olmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun rehberlik alma s\u00fcrecini sekteye u\u011frat\u0131r. 3 ila 6 ya\u015f aras\u0131 ise \u2018oyun \u00e7a\u011f\u0131\u2019 olarak tan\u0131mlan\u0131r. Bu d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n hayal g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc geli\u015ftiren oyunlar oynamas\u0131 son derece \u00f6nemlidir. Evcilik gibi sembolik oyunlar, \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygusal ve sosyal geli\u015fimine katk\u0131 sa\u011flar. Buna kar\u015f\u0131n, \u015fiddet i\u00e7erikli dijital oyunlara maruz kalmak, hayal g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn geli\u015fimini s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131rabilir. Bu ya\u015flardan itibaren \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n disiplinle tan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131, kre\u015f ortam\u0131nda ya\u015f\u0131tlar\u0131yla etkile\u015fim kurmas\u0131 ve payla\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmesi gerekir. S\u00fcrekli \u015fiddet i\u00e7erikleriyle b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun empati ve vicdan geli\u015fimini sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u015fekilde tamamlamas\u0131 ise olduk\u00e7a g\u00fc\u00e7le\u015fir.\u201d<\/p>\n Sanal ve kolay ba\u015far\u0131 alg\u0131s\u0131 geli\u015fimi zay\u0131flat\u0131yor!\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n 7 ila 11 ya\u015f aras\u0131 d\u00f6nemin, okul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131 oldu\u011funu ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n bu d\u00f6nemde ba\u015far\u0131ya y\u00f6neldiklerine i\u015faret eden\u00a0Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Neriman Kilit, \u201cAkademik, sportif ya da sanatsal alanlarda takdir edilmek, \u00f6zg\u00fcvenlerinin temelini olu\u015fturur. Ancak g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmadan kazanma fikrinin \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lmas\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n emek ve \u00fcretim kavramlar\u0131ndan uzakla\u015fmas\u0131na neden olabilmektedir. Oysa bireyin kendini de\u011ferli hissetmesi, \u00fcretti\u011fini g\u00f6rmesi ve bir i\u015fe katk\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etmesiyle m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Bu d\u00f6nemde sorumluluk bilinci kazand\u0131rmak da \u00f6nemlidir. Ger\u00e7ek sorumluluklar yerine sanal d\u00fcnyaya y\u00f6nelen \u00e7ocuklar, hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7ek dinamiklerinden kopabilir.\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n Ergenlik s\u00fcrecinde ise bireyin ki\u015fili\u011finin daha belirgin hale geldi\u011fini dile getiren\u00a0Dr. \u00d6\u011fr. \u00dcyesi Kilit, \u201cBu d\u00f6nemde iki temel unsur \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kar: Aile ve \u00e7evre taraf\u0131ndan \u015fekillenen \u00fcst benlik ile toplumun bireyden beklentileri. E\u011fer \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6neminde sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir de\u011fer sistemi olu\u015fturulmam\u0131\u015fsa ve toplum da kolay yoldan ba\u015far\u0131, d\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f odakl\u0131l\u0131k gibi mesajlar veriyorsa, gen\u00e7 birey ciddi bir kimlik karma\u015fas\u0131 ya\u015fayabilir.\u201d diyerek s\u00f6zlerini tamamlad\u0131.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n Kaynak: (BYZHA) Beyaz Haber Ajans\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00dcsk\u00fcdar \u00dcniversitesi NP\u0130STANBUL Hastanesi \u00c7ocuk ve Ergen Psikiyatri Uzman\u0131 Dr.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5429,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5428","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-saglik"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ekonomievreni.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5428","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ekonomievreni.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ekonomievreni.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ekonomievreni.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ekonomievreni.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5428"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ekonomievreni.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5428\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5430,"href":"https:\/\/ekonomievreni.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5428\/revisions\/5430"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ekonomievreni.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5429"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ekonomievreni.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5428"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ekonomievreni.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5428"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ekonomievreni.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5428"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}